I’ve been busy,..busy writing, busy procrastinating, busy living life, busy with roller coaster ride that life just sometimes is…Truth is, I think I got burned out on all of the technology and social media stuff, and decided that if I was really going to take my writing seriously maybe I needed to concentrate on the actual writing part.
I participated in July’s Camp NaNo again, won, but had to drop my word count goal because not only was my grandson’s 2nd birthday in July, but my 47th birthday was in July…My husband took me to the beach for the weekend and we went to Medieval Times and had a blast, even took our picture with the princess. I was enthralled with the whole experience. Neither of us had ever been, and we really did enjoy it. I’d recommend it to anyone and everyone, and have been.
But that’s not what this post is about. Being a writer is often a lonely, surreal, and somewhat draining way to spend your time. At least for me it is. I cannot write when my family members are hovering around, or when even just my husband is hovering. I cannot write when there is loud music or the television is on and it’s something I’m remotely interested in. I need quiet, or at least light background noise. If I listen to music it is usually instrumental, or extremely mellow music, unless I’m trying to conjure a certain mood, memory, or sensation then I usually listen to classic rock or movie soundtracks. To avoid distractions when I’m writing, I often listen to Rainy Moods…
And if the noise, chaos, and distractions from being part of a family aren’t enough there’s also social media. FB, Twitter, etc…I found myself becoming more and more distracted by all of that… I needed to take a break. I found myself wanting to write posts on WP and on FB, wanting to Tweet, but refrained. I did post a few pics every now and again to FB, wished a few people Happy Birthday, but to tell you the truth, I got a lot out of the brief time I spent away from so much social media. I’d begun to procrastinate when it came to writing… Perhaps it was writer’s block that started my path of distraction, I’d go to the Reader in WP and see what other’s were posting, I’d go to FB, I’d go to Twitter… The more I procrastinated, the harder it was to get back into my own writing.
I went out on the road with my husband several times, and during those trips I didn’t have access to internet, my laptop didn’t want to work right (I desperately need a new one), and while I was out on the road I wrote with pen and paper. Jotting ideas down, bits of dialogue…edited what I’d already written and that time with pen and paper helped me creatively.
Life’s ups and downs, and turns sometimes take us on exactly the ride we need to be on in order to get to where we need to go. I am a better writer now. I’ve learned that I don’t do well unless I have some balance. Social media, branding oneself, and getting yourself out there is great, but it won’t work if you never get your novel finished. And finished my novel comes first… It has to, or it will never happen and all the social media, branding, and getting myself out there will be for naught because I might write but I’ll never become an author.